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ANANDAN ARUMUGAM posted January 29, 2005 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ANANDAN ARUMUGAM   Click Here to Email ANANDAN ARUMUGAM     Edit Message
Sri Lanka's beach boys wait for tourists to return
30 Jan 2005 03:06:31 GMT
Source: Reuters
By Rahul Sharma

UNAWATUNA, Sri Lanka, Jan 30 (Reuters) - Lara used to earn his living assisting a diving master and offering company to lonely woman tourists on one of Sri Lanka's popular beaches dotted with small hotels and shacks selling spicy lobsters.

But then the Dec. 26 tsunami struck, taking the boats and the tourists away and leaving the 24-year-old "beach boy" stranded in borrowed shorts and a red T-shirt that says "Wear Air".

"No European ladies now, what to do? I hope they come back," said Lara, adding that he prefers his nickname to his real name as it worked well with women.

Lara, who idolises West Indian cricket maestro Brian Lara, is one of hundreds of poor young men who peddle sex and drugs, and offer a massage or just company to foreign men and women who head to Sri Lanka's tropical beaches.

Upali Nagasinha, owner of the Sunny Beach hotel, says they are a nuisance. "They cause trouble. They trouble the tourists who want a peaceful holiday."

But Lara doesn't want to go anywhere else.

"I have had 11 European girlfriends. Not old women, young, all very pretty," he boasts, looking at the deserted beach and recalling the Christmas revelry the day before the tsunami killed his diving master and many others.

The killer waves shattered Sri Lanka's southern and eastern beaches and killed about 38,000 people in the Indian Ocean island. Most of the hotels on the coastal stretch south of the capital Colombo were virtually flattened by the crashing waves.

The Unawatuna beach, where Lara lives and works, is popular with German and Swiss tourists. But it's been more than a month since the tsunami hit, and tourists who survived have gone home. Others, who were to arrive in January, cancelled their bookings.

"We had 45 people for a Christmas lobster party here," says Nagasinha.

"They were all drunk and happy. If I had my way, I would want them back here," he says, pointing to what was his hotel's restaurant but is now a jungle of wooden poles supporting a new reinforced concrete roof.

Sri Lanka expects tourism revenues to fall short of the targeted $510 million this year by up to 15 percent.

Nagasinha is rebuilding his tsunami-ravaged hotel, one of the places where Lara found his women friends and clients for his boat trips to the colourful coral reefs just off Unawatuna.

The neighbouring Lucky Tuna hotel and Happy Banana discotheque are also being rebuilt.

"I want to open quickly, maybe next month," said Nagasinha.

PAYING FOR SINS

Lara said the water was very warm when he went out to the sea the morning the tsunami struck. He had been out drinking and dancing at a bar the previous night and, though a vegetarian himself, he had cooked a beef dinner for some friends.

"I have a feel for the water and I am not afraid of it because I spend so much time scuba diving and snorkelling. When I saw the first wave I thought God was punishing me for my sins and I sped the boat to safety and ran to the high ground. Then the big wave came," he said.

That wave battered most of the hotels, washing away tourists as they relaxed on the beach. "There were four tourists sleeping just outside my hotel. They just vanished," said Nagasinha.

And so did many beach boys.

"Beach boys have gone with the tide," said Kadirgamalingam Sassi of the Flower Garden hotel that escaped damage because it is located away from the beach.

Lara says men could earn a decent pile of cash by offering their services to tourists -- old men and young women -- who also looked after them by buying them food and other things like clothes and expensive mobile phones.

"They get lonely sometimes. The last time I was with a woman she gave me 10,000 rupees ($100)," said Lara.

"We had lots of fun together, but no contact afterwards. No phone calls, no emails, no letters. No emotions. You can't fall in love. Even they can't," he said.

Lara said business had become tough as young men from other parts of the country had started vying for the attention of holidaymakers during the peak tourist season from October to February.

"There are many now from even Kandy," he said, referring to a a city in the central hill districts of Sri Lanka.

They have all gone home after the tsunami, but would return once the hotels reopen and tourists start streaming back.

"When ladies want them they will be there," said Sassi, adding that his hotel was fully booked in February.

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Drwho1 posted January 30, 2005 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Drwho1     Edit Message
It is very sad to hear this sort of news happened in south east Asia. Sri Lanka is not exception. This behaviour is part of Capitalism. very sad that Even men do prostitutions to European Womens. But I am sure that this sort of behaviour is not committed by English or from England even I know that Some criminals in England ,who have the sort of behaviour. Speceially, People from German and other European Countries, and also America do this sort of behaviour, and also they have mostly catholic background. Sorry to say that. English behaviour is not like European behaviour or American behaviour. That's I have to say.

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H.Erectus posted January 30, 2005 10:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for H.Erectus     Edit Message
If westerners including Englishmen can accept and legalize homosexuality which is completely unnatural and against gods wish what’s wrong with anyone from Asia becoming a male prostitute or westerner going after a male prostitute.

Drwho1 posted January 30, 2005 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Drwho1     Edit Message
I am not religious mind person, but I am very conservative and these things which I learned from parents and teachers. Point of view of legalize homosexuality, I am against the concept due to my background. I could say that Victorian time, homosexuality was crime. But Nowdays, People talk about own freedom and freedom of choice. That's means that after certain ages, you could chioce your life what you want and not disturb other people's freedom, how ever, people could not use drug on eye of law. Freedom of choice of westeren thinking is very complicated. It is not based on religion anymore.
How ever, prostitution is not same concept as freedom of chioce. It is part of money and capitalism

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H.Erectus posted January 31, 2005 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for H.Erectus     Edit Message
Prostitution is one of the world’s oldest professions. It started long before the words like capitalism and economy came to existence.

Drwho1 posted January 31, 2005 11:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Drwho1     Edit Message
You are right that prostitution is one of the world’s oldest professions. I do not know that what point you are making. Consume prostitution by money or capital or any form of favour, that is called as prostitution.

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terminator posted January 31, 2005 11:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for terminator   Click Here to Email terminator     Edit Message
people like Lara are not that common in Sri Lanka.

You guys should remember one thing, the outliers always make the news.

We do have a Lara in New York City, his is called Visva.

The world is free and sky it the limit.

If I had it my way, I will discourage Tourism.


We should not depend too much on a show and tell culture.

Impress them what from what you have achieved rather than what the nature provide us or what our ancestors did.

Only LTTE have the answer to people like Lara, which is called instant justice.


ANANDAN ARUMUGAM posted January 31, 2005 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ANANDAN ARUMUGAM   Click Here to Email ANANDAN ARUMUGAM     Edit Message

DEAR UNCLES,

I HUMBLEY BEG YOU ALL TO POINT OUT WHERE EVER I HAVE MADE FALSE STATEMENTS OF FACTS THAT I GATHER FROM MOSTLY SINGHALA MODAYA PUBLICATIONS WITH WEB PAGE ADDRESS.

1.AN INDO IRANIAN NYMPHOMANIAC QUEEN RAPED A LION AND GAVE BIRTH TO SINGHALA MODAYAS BEAST
BASTARD IN NORTH EASTRN INDIA.

2. SINGHALA BEAST SON RAPED HIS SISTER TO MAKE FIRST INCEST INDO-IRANIAN MONGOLOID BASTARD SON VIJEYA. WHO WAS RAPING AND PLUNDERING ALL OVER INDIA.

3. FIRST INDO-IRANIAN KALLA -THONI (SMUGGLER BOAT) ECONOMIC REFUGEE VIJEYA PAID AGENTS TO SNEAK HIM AND SIX HUNDRED SINGHALA ARSE HOLES INTO THAMIL EELAM ILLEGALLY.

4 INCEST BASTARD MONGOLOID VIJEYA RAPED THE THAMIL EELAM QUEENI TO MAKE THE SINGHALA MODAYA BASTARDS.

5. BUTCHERED AND BURNED ALIVE THE QUEENI OF THAMIL EELAM. PLUNDERED AND ILLEGALY OCCUPIED
IT.

6.STILL CONTINUING AND HAVE CONVERTED 60% DRAVIDIAN HINDU EELAM TAMIL ABORIGINES INTO INDO IRANIAN SINGHALA MONGOLOID MODAYA BUDDHIST BASTARDS OF SORRY LANKA.

7. STILL CONTINUED WITH ALL THE FOREIGN INVADERS LIKE ARABS, MUSLIMS, PORTUGESE, DUTCH, BRITISH ETC; THE BEST EXAMPLE IS TAMIL BASTARD SAMPAHA NEELA PERUMAL SOLOMON WEST RIDGEWAY DIAS ANWAR ANURA BANDARA NAI YAKKA BROTHER OF PRESENT PRESIDENT CHANDRIKA KUMARANATHUNGA OF SORRY LANKA.

8. THE YEAR IS 2005 YET SINGHALA MODAYAS HAVE NOT CIVILIZED AND PRACTICING BEAST INCEST BASTARDIZATION EVEN AFTER 2555 YEARS. SINHALA MODAYAS ARE CONTINUING WITH BEASTS, DOGS, GOATS ETC; INCEST OF GRAND FATHERS, FATHERS, BROTHERS, SONS, GRANDSONS, UNCLES, NEPHEWS ETC WITH GRAND MOTHERS, MOTHERS, SISTERS, DAUGHTERS, GRAND DAUGHTERS, AUNTYS AND NIECES
AND WITH INANIMATE OBJECTS OF PASSION ARE NORMALY ACCEPTED BY SINGHALA MODAYAS.

9. 100% TRUE SINGHALA MONGOLID MODAYA BORU WAMSA. BUDDHIST GATHA KAVIA AS STATED BY WELL IDUCATED SINGHALAS TO PROVE THAT THEY HAVE AN INALIENABLE GOD GIVEN RIGHTS TO COMMIT GENOCIDE,
HOLOCAUST ON LIMURIAN ABORIGINE DRAVIDIAN TAMILS
AS BLESSED AND CHOSEN BY NIRVANA DRUG ADDICT BUDDHA OF VARNASI, INDIA.

10. LIMURIA WAS THE ANCIENT DRAVIDIAN TAMIL EELAM CIVILIZATION PART OF IT SERVIVED ANS INDIAN PENISULAR AND ISLAND AROUND AFTER ANCIENT TSUMNIS. TAMIL LANGUAGE ORIGINATED AND STILL EXISTS IN SOUTH INDIA AND EELAM.

11. SINGHALESE LANGUAGE WAS BROUGHT BY INDO IRANIAN IRANIAN INVADERS STARTING WITH KALLA THONI VIJEYA AND CONTINUING WITH PALI BUDDHISTS, MUSLIM ARABS, CATHOLIC PORTUGESE, SPANISH,PROTESTANT DUTCH, BRITISH ENGLISH ETC.

12. ALL THE INVADERS HAVE BEEN THROWN OUT YET INDO IRANIANS ARE GOING TO BE VANQUISHED BYOUR SAVIOUR AVATHAR SURIYA THEVAN VELUPPILAI PRABAHARAN AND ORIGINAL LIMURIAN DRAVIDIAN INDEPENDENT TAMIL EELAM WILL BE ESTABLISHED SOON.

GOD BLESS YOU ALL.

AFFECTIONATELY.

ANANDAN ARUMUGAM.


Visva posted March 13, 2005 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Visva   Click Here to Email Visva     Edit Message

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