posted November 18, 2001 10:39 PM         

there are some issues on this forum which i want to keep up with so sam & ravis what ever your responses at current will be i will be back to reply!

i hope soon we all can (as visva says) find away to use this forum in the intended manner.

posted November 19, 2001 06:20 AM            

Dont marry that guy.He is no good.Marry me.

ha ha ha

Good luck Lioness

posted November 19, 2001 09:00 AM            

I haven't met your future husband, but please don't marry Visva. Visva hasn't proven to be a married man and a husband. I am a proven one; I got the experience; and I am capable of producing perfect babies in the perfect order. Marry me!!

WISH YOU THE BEST

posted November 19, 2001 09:37 AM            

So tell me lioness, are you marrying a Tamil Guy, Sinhala Guy or western Guy? How did you both met and love started? If you can share with the Romance? YOU CAN OMMIT SOME DETAILS

RS

posted November 19, 2001 10:01 AM            

Any way, Congratulations Lioness.

posted November 19, 2001 10:21 AM            

Sam, you are showing up your true color, this is a very ignorant and stereotypical comment on Chineese too (which you have already erased from your post). None of the Tamils that I know of talk like you or RaviS about ladies. Do not fight for Tamils rights please, you don’t qualify. You simply biased towards Tamils and against Sinhalese, women and now Chineese too.

It is also sad that you are trying to measure the success of a relationship from the size of something.
How little you know about the life

Lioness, hope you two have a wonderful life. You are a perfect example that your love for your husband to be is pure since you see only the soul and not the skin. Go somewhere away from your folks for a couple of years or so, it will be quite healthy for your marriage. This way, you will only focus on yourselves and will strengthen your bond so that no body can challenge it later on. You have shown that you have a very honest, loving and a caring personality, I am sure your husband will enjoy all these qualities.

Good luck again, please do come back and visit us.

posted November 19, 2001 10:45 AM            

Then again, you were under the impression that she was joking. However things like women wants more sex than men, Black men’s something is long or Chinese men the same thing is short are common stereotypical comments. I grew up with them and they are no longer part of my common life, I have learned some good lessons living in US. We never address this type racial or female discriminatory comments in Sri Lanka.

By the way, save some of your writings and read them in about few years. It will treat you as a baseline to measure the progress of your life. If you will dislike them, be happy for you. You have outgrown yourself in a good way. Only few people can do it.

posted November 19, 2001 11:24 AM            

I too hope you have a long and happy future together. I can thoroughly recommend marriage (as long as you're with the right man!).

posted November 19, 2001 03:08 PM            

You can have a very good tool but if you don't know how to use it properly, it is useless. On the otherhand, someone can have not so sphisticated tool, but able to do a lot of things with that.

posted November 19, 2001 03:30 PM            

What is your measure of sophistication?
No one should laugh at men in country over 2 Billion people.

"You can have a very good tool but if you don't know how to use it properly, it is useless. On the otherhand, someone can have not so sphisticated tool, but able to do a lot of things with that."

posted November 19, 2001 03:43 PM            

I think you have to ask this questions with the ladies in this forum. I believe they can measure it better if they were concise enough to measure it.

posted November 19, 2001 06:46 PM            

Btw Lioness, have you decided upon your Honeymoon destination? I have a great place to suggest you. As you both start your long Journey thru Happiness and saddness until the death thy part, what is a better place to spend your honeymoon than VANNI, TAMIL EELAM. It would be a good reminder to both of you, that life ain't going to be easy as in Colombo, you both have to work hard everyday to make your marrige last.

VANNI, TAMIL EELAM...The place new couple can learn their true survival skils....because it is the only place on the earth, economic embargo exists.

posted November 21, 2001 06:38 AM            

I am the chief executive officer of the welcoming commitee here.I never had a chance to properly welcome you.

WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME

I hope the experiance you get here is mutually rewarding

posted November 21, 2001 08:34 AM            

Sinhalese are known to marry Muslims as well as Burgers. Chinese have been living in SL for centuries and they may not be much different from most Sri Lankans by now.

Of course most parents would love to see their kids getting married to someone close to their religion and race. However, when kids fall in love and decide to marry someone else, most parents make their mind up and finally accept it.

posted November 21, 2001 08:47 AM            

How do you explain all these things, well people fall in love at unusual ways and unusual situations. A while back Ranjan said on this forum that ladies are needy and that is why they fall in love with anyone other than Sinhalese. Well, this Rat trashes anything he doesn’t like. It could also be due to the fact that he may be trapped with a big ugly one with a bad mouth and he is so jealousy with others.

My stomach is already full and I don’t complain.

posted November 21, 2001 11:11 AM            

"It is this quality that brought Sinhalese in trouble, we tolerate too much."

If you were thinking this statement, since we tolerate, we don't recognize who the enemy is. The interracial partner is not the enemy, the people who come to our door step, take advantage of our kindness and come back and stab us (The Terrorists).

There is a saying among foreign minority that if you are in trouble, go and seek help from a Sinhalese. They won’t say No to you even if you are a Terrorist. I want to change that Culture.

posted November 21, 2001 01:23 PM            

Nothing is permanent, we shouldn’t force to decrease the lifetime of anything.

posted November 21, 2001 02:10 PM            

Sorry,

I am the King of this Forum. My son is the Prince, the future King. This so called chief executive officer work way under my son, the Prince.

Onbehalf of my Kingdom,

WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME

I hope the experiance you get here is mutually memorable.

posted November 22, 2001 01:40 AM         

Ravis - I see you have quite an imagination! Are you making this forum a monarchy just like the old days

Hammer - i'm really surprise to hear your responses, and i must say it's very positive for me. True the world is changing as we become more open minded and tolerant, but i've always thought arranged marriage was still existence in sighalese families. As far as my holiday visits to Srilanka, I've never seen interracial couples which makes me wonder what part of srilanka are your insight based on?

posted November 22, 2001 03:33 AM            

You were probably making too many assumptions, that is why you got surprised about my comments.

My insights are not based on any Part of Sri Lanka. I’ve known quite few Sri Lankans living abroad. These are the people that I came to contact with over the last 10 years.

Of cause, arranged marriages are still in existence. Have you checked out the web based Mangala ads, I heard that they are very popular now among the foreign SL professionals.
There are even ads on the internet searching for Kapuvas.

posted November 22, 2001 01:13 PM            

Hammer's characterization of RaviS is 100 percent accurate.He is refusing to grow up.He wont listen to any one.

There was a story about a young Tamil woman who got raped by SLA soldiers.It was alleged that after the rape,SL soldiers blasted her vagina with a hand grenade.

I wasnt there when this alleged rape and murder happened.

I read this story first on Tamilnet.It was also reported that an all female LTTE cadres attacked a police command post in the eastern province to mark the anniversary of the Tamil victim this year.

When ever RaviS runs into a brick wall,he uses this story.

posted November 22, 2001 01:42 PM            

"Hammer's characterization of RaviS is 100 percent accurate."

LJ, You are a woman, you know about once adulthood than the KID and the PLAYBOY here. A true Woman won't take two idiots(One is a Racists and Other is Betraying his own Race like his Uncle Kathirkarmer) at face value. LJ, it is all in the eye of the eye holders. Infact, I am going to have to judge you from your who you going to believe here. THE KING, THE CEO OR THE RACIST.
He is refusing to grow up.He wont listen to any one.

"There was a story about a young Tamil woman who got raped by SLA soldiers."

"It was alleged that after the rape,SL soldiers blasted her vagina with a hand grenade."

Ado Paraith Themila, it was your sister's virgina got blasted that day.

"I wasnt there when this alleged rape and murder happened."

Call Tamil Eelam rightnow, may be it was your monther got raped and killed by SLA that day.

"I read this story first on Tamilnet.It was also reported that an all female LTTE cadres attacked a police command post in the eastern province to mark the anniversary of the Tamil victim this year."

Who asked you to read TamilNet, go and read Daily News and Walter Jeyawardane's CRAP from Los Angels.

"When ever RaviS runs into a brick wall,he uses this story."

A Parai Themilan things this incident is a joke. LJ, please look down and tell me how would you feel right now if someone blast yours?

"IT IS TRULY SAD POLITICIANS AND INDIVIDUALS LIKE RAVI S USES TRAGIC EVENTS TO FURTHER THEIR OWN CAUSE."

Thanks for referring me a politician. What "furthering my own cause" are you talking about?

posted November 22, 2001 03:34 PM            

If somebody rip my b**ls off or cut my d**k with a blunt knife then I may feel the same.

posted November 22, 2001 04:01 PM            

"If somebody rip my b**ls off or cut my d**k with a blunt knife then I may feel the same."

Pls look down or up, where ever you are keeping it or misplayed during the WTC collapse that old/weakened/usedup stuffs of yours, tell me how would you FEEL if I come over to your Manhatten Mansion with a very SHARP KNIFE AND CUT THEM OUT ALTOGETHER YOUR TWO DUNG DUNGS AND CUT YOUR USELESS STICK HALF AND LEAVE THE OTHER HALF WITH YOU, PLEASE TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL, TAMIL TRAITOR ANNA?

RS