Who You Are To Makes A Difference..............!
Posted by Tommy on January 14, 1998 at 18:50:52:

A teacher in New York decided to honor each of her seniors in
high school by telling them the difference they each made. Using a
process developed by Helice Bridges of Del Mar, California, she called
each student to the front of the class, one at a time. First she told
them how the student made a difference to her and the class. Then she
presented each of them with a blue ribbon imprinted with gold letters
which read, "Who I Am Makes a Difference."

Afterwards the teacher decided to do a class project to see what
kind of impact recognition would have on a community. She gave each
of the students three more ribbons and instructed them to go out and
spread this acknowledgment ceremony. Then they were to follow up on the
results, see who honored whom and report back to the class in about a
One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a
nearby company and honored him for helping him with his career
planning. He gave him a blue ribbon and put it on his shirt. Then he
gave him two extra ribbons, and said, "We're doing a class project on
recognition, and we'd like you to go out, find somebody to honor, give them
a blue ribbon then give them the extra blue ribbon so they can acknowledge
third person to keep this acknowledgment ceremony going. Then please report
back to me and tell me what happened."

Later that day the junior executive went in to see his boss, who
had been noted, by the way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat
his boss down and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a
creative genius. The boss seemed very surprised. The junior
executive asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue ribbon and
would he give him permission to put it on him. His surprsied boss said,

The junior executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right on
his boss's jacket above his heart. As he gave him the last extra
ribbon, he said, "Would you do me a favor? would you take this extra
ribbon and pass it on by honoring somebody else? The young boy who first
gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school and we want to keep this
recognition ceremony going and find out how it affects people."

That night the boss came home to his 14-year-old son and sat him
down. He said, "The most incredible thing happened to me today. I
was in my office and one of the junior executives came in and told me he
admired me and gave me a blue ribbon for being a creative genius.
Imagine. He thinks I'm a creative genius. Then he put this blue ribbon
that says 'Who I Am Makes A Difference' on my jacket above my heart. He gave
me an extra ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to honor. As I was
driving home tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with this
ribbon and I thought about you. I want to honor you.

"My days are really hectic and when I come home I don't pay a lot
of attention to you. Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good
enough grades in school and for your bedroom being a mess, but somehow
tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just let you know that
you do make a difference to me. besides your mother, you are the most
important person in my life. You're a great kid and I love you!"

The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he couldn't stop
crying. His whole body shook. He looked up at his father and said
through his tears, "I was planning on committing suicide tomorrow,
Dad, because I didn't think you loved me. Now I don't need to."

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